"The first time, it ruined me, but I thought... It's like a rite of passage.Now, they've touched me.Now, I am a woman."-----"Violated" shares and explores real-life experiences of broken consent and sexual assault. As the "Woman" recounts her encounters, the audience are asked to question "How many of these have I also been party to? How many have I vocalised to another soul? Why do we keep them secret?". The "Man" attempts to vocalise his singular defining sexual assault, raising queries such as: How much pressure are men under to always appear strong? Do the men in my life feel open to talk emotionally? Do I always feel like I can say No?".It's time for a real discussion about consent. It's not about skimpy skirts or saying no to a stranger.1 in 2 rapes against women are by their Current or Ex Partner.Women are taught to beware. Men to not be weak.1 in 4 women, 1 in 20 men - Have been raped or sexually assaulted as an adult.5 in 6 women, 4 in 5 men - Do not report it. Violated is calling on everyone to truly look at when they should be asking for consent.-----"Who am I now then? Not who society says I should be... They say it's my fault that-!"

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You can donate to the charity of your choice, but if you're looking for inspiration, there are three charities we really like.

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Mama Biashara
Kate Copstick’s charity, Mama Biashara, works with the poorest and most marginalised people in Kenya. They give grants to set up small, sustainable businesses that bring financial independence and security. That five quid you spend on a large glass of House White? They can save someone’s life with that. And the money for a pair of Air Jordans? Will take four women and their fifteen children away from a man who is raping them and into a new life with a moneymaking business for Mum and happiness for the kids.
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Theatre MAD
The Make A Difference Trust fights HIV & AIDS one stage at a time. Their UK and International grant-making strategy is based on five criteria that raise awareness, educate, and provide care and support for the most vulnerable in society. A host of fundraising events, including Bucket Collections, Late Night Cabarets, West End Eurovision, West End Bares and A West End Christmas continue to raise funds for projects both in the UK and Sub-Saharan Africa.
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Acting For Others
Acting for Others provides financial and emotional support to all theatre workers in times of need through the 14 member charities. During the COVID-19 crisis Acting for Others have raised over £1.7m to support theatre workers affected by the pandemic.
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