Have you ever refused to let your low astrological (astrologically low) compatibility deter you? Ever been enticed into something only to find yourself desperately clinging onto it? Then this might be for you... For anyone whos ever had the pleasure of dating a Softboi, or anyone who might be lured into their trap. The existential, sensitive, and perhaps a bit performatively sad male. He's a staunch feminist - particularly committed to #freethenipple. They could take the form of a Morrisey Apostle, a Wes Anderson fanatic, or a Charles Bukowski academic. Maybe all three if youre lucky. Either way you broke up and found yourself unable to get over it. Soft Boi is an exploration of obsession, the male gaze and finding yourself through others. A show for anyone whos ever naively thought they could be a fixer, only to end up needing to be rescued.

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… we have a small favour to ask. We don't want your money to support a hack's bar bill at Abattoir, but if you have a pound or two spare, we really encourage you to support a good cause. If this review has either helped you discover a gem or avoid a turkey, consider doing some good that will really make a difference.

You can donate to the charity of your choice, but if you're looking for inspiration, there are three charities we really like.

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Mama Biashara
Kate Copstick’s charity, Mama Biashara, works with the poorest and most marginalised people in Kenya. They give grants to set up small, sustainable businesses that bring financial independence and security. That five quid you spend on a large glass of House White? They can save someone’s life with that. And the money for a pair of Air Jordans? Will take four women and their fifteen children away from a man who is raping them and into a new life with a moneymaking business for Mum and happiness for the kids.
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Theatre MAD
The Make A Difference Trust fights HIV & AIDS one stage at a time. Their UK and International grant-making strategy is based on five criteria that raise awareness, educate, and provide care and support for the most vulnerable in society. A host of fundraising events, including Bucket Collections, Late Night Cabarets, West End Eurovision, West End Bares and A West End Christmas continue to raise funds for projects both in the UK and Sub-Saharan Africa.
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Acting For Others
Acting for Others provides financial and emotional support to all theatre workers in times of need through the 14 member charities. During the COVID-19 crisis Acting for Others have raised over £1.7m to support theatre workers affected by the pandemic.
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