'Off you go then and best of luck. It's bound to be different this time though some of it might seem familiar. The big questions, we mean. The beginnings, middles, endings et cetera. Still, not to worry, it's all a work-in-progress.' You're born a girl. You grow up. You grow old. You die. But who is in control of your life story? Can you actually choose your destiny? And how do you forge your own identity along the way?