Ruby Rare's ever-popular, joyous and silly Sexy Sermons return online too!

An inclusive and enthusiastic guide to ethnical non-monogamy, in all its glorious forms.

In case you can't make it to our in person event, we are hosting a Sexy Sermon Webinar.

Whether you're brand new to open relationships, or are already navigating your own poly constellation, the world of non-monogamy can feel overwhelming. This talk will break down different ways to explore non-monogamy, give insight into improving communication (with yourself and others), and provide you with tools to process jealousy in healthy ways.

Ruby will be sharing some of their own experiences of non-monogamy - from group sex to polyamory - with the hope that we can learn from some of the triumphs and mistakes.

This talk will help you to navigate all aspects of non-monogamy with confidence and curiosity.

This is a warm and welcoming space for people of all sexualities, genders, and relationship structures. We invite you to join Ruby in an evening that'll spark your imagination and inspire you to go beyond traditional ways of thinking about relationships.

A final note: respect, confidentiality and consent are fundamental principles of Ruby Rare events, and all attendees are expected to uphold them. The organiser reserves the right to ask anyone to leave should their behaviour be in breach of these principles.

A link will be sent to all ticket holders 3 days before the event.

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You can donate to the charity of your choice, but if you're looking for inspiration, there are three charities we really like.

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Mama Biashara
Kate Copstick’s charity, Mama Biashara, works with the poorest and most marginalised people in Kenya. They give grants to set up small, sustainable businesses that bring financial independence and security. That five quid you spend on a large glass of House White? They can save someone’s life with that. And the money for a pair of Air Jordans? Will take four women and their fifteen children away from a man who is raping them and into a new life with a moneymaking business for Mum and happiness for the kids.
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Theatre MAD
The Make A Difference Trust fights HIV & AIDS one stage at a time. Their UK and International grant-making strategy is based on five criteria that raise awareness, educate, and provide care and support for the most vulnerable in society. A host of fundraising events, including Bucket Collections, Late Night Cabarets, West End Eurovision, West End Bares and A West End Christmas continue to raise funds for projects both in the UK and Sub-Saharan Africa.
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Acting For Others
Acting for Others provides financial and emotional support to all theatre workers in times of need through the 14 member charities. During the COVID-19 crisis Acting for Others have raised over £1.7m to support theatre workers affected by the pandemic.
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